Gay Chinese Couple Fulfils Wedding Dream in Thailand After Same-Sex Marriage Legalization

In a heartfelt and symbolic ceremony that echoes the growing pursuit of love beyond borders, a gay Chinese couple, Wang Zengyi and Song Jihan, has fulfilled their wedding dream in Thailand — now the largest country in Asia to legalize same-sex marriage. The couple, aged 41 and 29 respectively, became one of the first Chinese LGBTQ+ pairs to tie the knot in Thailand, making their union official just months after the country passed its landmark same-sex marriage legislation.

The couple’s journey to the altar began nearly three years ago when they first met at a dinner party in China. “I thought he was handsome and pure,” said Wang, reflecting on their instant connection. Their love deepened over time, but the road to marriage was blocked in their home country, where despite decriminalization of homosexuality in 1997, same-sex marriage remains illegal and social stigma is prevalent.

Faced with bureaucratic barriers and growing suppression of LGBTQ+ expression in China, Wang and Song decided to take their vows in Thailand, a country they view as more open and accepting. “Thailand is a freer country,” Wang said after signing their marriage certificate at a registry office in Bangkok. “It’s also more inclusive to our community.”

The wedding holds special significance not just for the couple but for many others who view Thailand as a beacon of hope. The kingdom’s decision to legalize same-sex marriage earlier this year made it the third place in Asia to do so after Taiwan and Nepal. Thousands of couples celebrated the historic law in January 2025 with mass weddings across the nation.

For Wang and Song, their ceremony was anything but ordinary. With the support of a consultant and an agent, they navigated the administrative procedures required for foreign couples to wed in Thailand. Real estate agent Owen Zhu, who also assists LGBTQ+ Chinese clients in arranging weddings in Thailand, highlighted the challenges these couples face, such as securing a certificate of single status—something difficult to obtain in China—and dealing with legal non-recognition upon return.

“There is a large market demand from many Chinese same-sex couples,” Zhu noted, adding that for many, Thailand offers the freedom to express love publicly—something still difficult or unsafe to do back home.

Though China does not recognize same-sex marriages registered abroad, for many like Wang and Song, the symbolic weight of a recognized union is invaluable. “Though this piece of paper might not be recognized in China, in their hearts, they see it as recognition and acceptance from the world,” said Zhu.

The couple hosted a full wedding ceremony on a picturesque Pattaya beach, surrounded by friends, loved ones, and even their small fluffy dog who acted as ring bearer. As they sang love ballads and exchanged tearful vows, the moment encapsulated both personal joy and a broader message of hope.

Legal consultant Chris Yan, who helped them manage the Thai paperwork, praised the country’s efficient process and affordability, especially in comparison to many Western nations. “The cost in Thailand is quite low. They can stay in the country longer, and processing is quicker,” he said, emphasizing Thailand’s appeal to international LGBTQ+ couples.

While they plan to return to China after their honeymoon, Wang and Song hope to retire in Thailand one day, in a place where they feel seen and safe. Their message to others in similar situations is simple yet powerful: “Be with the one you want to be with,” Wang said, his voice reflecting the quiet resilience that characterizes many LGBTQ+ lives in restrictive environments.

Thailand’s embrace of same-sex marriage marks a crucial step forward for LGBTQ+ rights in Asia, a continent where legal progress remains inconsistent and often slow. Its progressive shift not only benefits Thai citizens but also opens the door to countless others who seek recognition, dignity, and love.

Wang and Song’s union is more than a personal celebration—it’s a symbol of resistance, resilience, and the ever-expanding global movement toward marriage equality. As the first Chinese gay couple to hold a full wedding ceremony in Thailand, they stand as pioneers, hopeful that more will follow, and that someday, even their home country will embrace equality in law as well as in love.

Their story serves as both an emotional reminder of the power of love and a spotlight on the ongoing fight for LGBTQ+ rights in many parts of the world. It shows how borders may divide nations, but cannot suppress the desire for freedom, connection, and recognition. And in Thailand, amid vibrant Pride celebrations and progressive reforms, one couple has turned that dream into reality.